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ISLAMIC teachings regarding Sexual Relations

By M. Waqas (MPA) • Sep 9th, 2008 • Category: Misc • 8 Comments •

There is frequent discussion on TPS regarding sexual behavior, sex in Pakistan and rising trends of friendship among boys and girls. Let we know clearly that our lord ALMIGHTY ALLAH and his Prophet have laid down clear boundaries for men and women. Following are the few verses of QURAN and Saying of PROPHET (S A W) from sahih Bukhari.

17:32 Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).

In this verse it is clearly described that illegal sexual relations are shameful deed and it open the road of all evils and resultantly defabricate the society.

24:2 The woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication,- flog each of them with a hundred stripes: Let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.

In this verse of sura noor punishment of such shameful act is announced because no one can be allowed to disintegrate the fabric of pure family system and pollute the atmosphere of muslim society. Punishment of married people is even worse .According to sunnah of holy prophet they shall be stoned till death.

24:3 Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry and but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden.
24:30 Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.

24:31 And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.

In the above mentioned two verses both men and women are guided how to behave and move in the society and how to keep their modesty.

Following are the sayings of Holy Prophet reported by Imam Bukhari in his book.

Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah’s Apostle said, “When an adulterer commits, illegal sexual intercourse then he is not a believer at the time he is doing it; and when somebody drinks an alcoholic drink, then he is not believer at the time of drinking, and when a thief steals, he is not a believer at the time when he is stealing; and when a robber robs and the people look at him, then he is not a believer at the time of doing it.” Abu Huraira in another narration narrated the same from the Prophet with the exclusion of robbery.

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, “Faith (Belief) consists of more than sixty branches (i.e. parts). And Haya (This term “Haya” covers a large number of concepts which are to be taken together; amongst them are self respect, modesty, bashfulness, and scruple, etc.) is a part of faith.”

Narrated by ‘Abdullah:

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah’s Apostle said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty(i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”

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  1. A very good and informative article, and no comments on it.

    Adding to above, science prove that egg is produced in a female for 3 days during mid of two mensuration. During these days a female is inclined towards sexuality. An their is a teaching that un-married females have fast for those specified three days each month. This sure to reduce corruption from its very beginning (we know stopping the beginning of an evil is very important)

    Keep writing Waqas Sahib.

  2. Drear Waqas!

    It’s a pleasure to read your article which I waited for weeks on Pakistani spectator’s dash board as pending article, though at last, it turned up with immaculate verses of the holy qoran.

    It’s a real jewel pierced by beading in to a marvelous built in symphony.

    May! god bless you for your efforts?

    Waqas! I would definitely love to direct your attention and thoughts towards a standard patronization so to utilized the treasure of qoran and its verses as part of the process to upgrade and rectify the thoughts of general population at large belonging to any religion as caste ,cadre, races or community .

    It is not at all, a necessity to welcome my personal desire, but the point is that your built-in tendency as eminent writer would be a beneficial factor so to liquidate the idea of verses as the only legendary book of humanity to the unconcerned as well thereby realizing them to understand the basic theme and concept of Islam in and around such affairs.

    Waqas! It’s my personnel feel and ethical logic too, that whatever has been cited in qoran and practiced in lieu by the holy messenger Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH), has the ultimate essence of impregnated scent of belief and natural element of sense of obligation of abidance by humanity under any umbrella of school as ethical, moral, acceptable, lawful and palatable practice, without the element of human defiance. Such acceptances based on logic are known as natural instinct.

    The same practices to understand the theme of religion to the table of understanding, has also been the similar subjects of our prestigious (Ashaab), (Khulfa) (Aimma), (Auleea) (ulayma) and Pious Muslims at large. (Amar……….bil maaroof ……WA…..)

    Waqas! I think this is right time to get out of the horizon and sphere of the self curtailed boundary so to highlight the practices as logical dictation for the universe at large beyond the scope of single school of practice.

    You see! Why should one understand your version of thought in a format that is even difficult to be define by individual like me, but, with the consent and support of accepted scholars and their acceptable interpretation duly validated as per requisite criterion of legitimate platform of earn.

    Waqas you see we believe as obligation for being part and parcel of Islam and bearing as Muslim, as a basic element of faith, without any ifs and buts, what ever is cited and being displayed by our school, as principality of belief being Muslim and followers.

    But sir! Why should a person who has no bindings as such would indulge himself as something ethical, unless and until, it’s being floated in a version acceptable as per his understanding and thoughts.

    Waqas! Ethically we do not require proof to explain legitimate and prestigious flag so to assemble the thoughts of non Muslim towards Islam, as what has been said and floated as verses is the truth and is our belief as well.

    Here the point is that we should sort a way out to convey the message in a mode and method, that is accepted as logical part of bearing, as natural instinct of abidance by humanity at largebelonginging to any religious bearing, thereby understanding the slogan of Islam and its teaching as meaningful religion of humanity.

    Regards

  3. screw u fucking bearded bastards

  4. What does this mean Sameer?

  5. Are you requesting the bearded persons to screw you?

  6. Beware of such Quran being marketed as link appended below:

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    Only read and get advice from the Quran brought to Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W) by Jibrael (E.S)

  7. Sameer give respect take respect please

  8. @ Mr. Waqas

    Subhaan Allah
    Allah bless you
    Your post made me shake with fear of Allah
    Even Shukar Alhumdulliah I never commited any of those sin ever

    O Allah forgive my sin not reading the Holy Quran with meanings and understanding, Allah bless you for posting a fine collection of Quranic Versus and Ahadis regarding Sexual misbehavier in Islam. This basic teaching of Islamic education must be published in plain Urdu and English, according to the situation and requirement of time. like this one. A stich in time saves nine. Unfortunately young people are not much aware our Islamic teaching. It’s our job to do it, and we are failing to do so.
    Great timely effort.
    Allah bless you and Muslim ummah
    Aur hamari Khatain maaf farmai Amin
    Regards

    Capt(R)Dr Razahaider Says:
    September 9th, 2008

    Here the point is that we should sort a way out to convey the message in a mode and method, that is accepted as logical part of bearing, as natural instinct of abidance by humanity at largebelonginging to any religious bearing, thereby understanding the slogan of Islam and its teaching as meaningful religion of humanity.
    You surprised me again Sir
    What a beautifull inquiring mind, and understanding of Islam and eager to learn more, Honestly I am Impressed
    So as I just discovered you are not only good in Politics and Economics, but also haave good knowlege of Islam, and a deep hidden desire to spread the knowledge and teaching as well
    “Aap tu chuppay Rustam niklay” sorry pl don’t mind. now I feel closer to you.
    You are knowledge able Muslim, I believe little more study and research, you could be our guide in Islamic Studies too. Insha Allah

    Masha Allah after reaing your comment on Islam I can proudly say about you. App ek aisa hera ho jo zara aur polish say Koh e Noor ban sakta hai.
    We need people like you Sir
    You can guide young generation through you writings and wisdom
    Regards

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