Is Oral Sex Allowed After Marriage?
By Gul Raiz • Jul 5th, 2008 • Category: Misc • 30 CommentsI am quite perplexed, and that is why I am asking “Is Oral Sex for both man and women allowed after marriage in Islam, Christianity and other religions?”
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September 20th, 2008
Salam to all my Brothers.
meray bhaiyo main ney sab ki posts perhnay ka baad ye andaza kiya k aap sab log hi kafi achay musalman ho jo eik dosray ko necha dekha rahay ho apni baton sey, baat start hoi thi eik sawal sey or ja ponhchi hai galiyon tak,
main buhat acha musalman nahi hon, i m sure aap main sey 1 % bhi 5 waqt k namazi nahi hon gay, khair baat ho rahi thi k kon bara musalman hai…. jo kehta hai oral sex gunah hai…ya… jo kehta hai sab jaiz hai?
pehlay un logon sey kahon ga kuch jo kehtay hain k “SAB JAIZ HAI”
meary bhaiyo islamab ney mard or orat ko as a miyan biwi ye haq diya hai k woh eik dosray sey apny un sab jazbaat ki taskeen pori terha lain jo un ko zaroret ho, islam main kahin nahi aaya k orat sey esa salook karo k usay apna aap necha dekhai dey, oral sex k mamlay main main nay buhat tehqeeq ki, buhat sey ulma sey pocha, kisi k pass koi wazia jawab nahi tha k ye jaiz hai ya najaiz, per 100% ney is ki mukhalfat zaror ki, un k mutabik ye orat ki toheen hai, magar koi aayat koi hadees bhi quote nahi ki unhon ney is k 100% mamnu honay per, per as muslim hamain napaki or nijs cheezon sey dori rakhni chahye, jo mawad nijs hai us ko hth lagana bhi ganwara nahi kiya jata na k munh lagaya jay, is liye jahan tak mumkin ho is sey door rehna chahye. main nay eik fikah main ye bhi perha hai k agar mawad (drops) munh main na jay to koi muzaika nahi.
ab main aaon ga apnay dosray bhaiyon ki terf jo islam ka naam atay hi aag bhagola ho jatay hain, yani jo is kaam ko haram samajhtay hain:
meray bhaiyo aap sab se ziyada jiss baat per zor dey rahay ho woh hai “usi zuban sey Allah ka ziker kerna jiss sey oral sex kerna”. to meray bhaiyo ye batao k is zuban sey kabhi jhoot bolaty waqt tum ney socha hai k Allah ka ziker bhi is sey kertay ho? kabhi gali detay waqt, kisi ko baton main necha dekhatay waqt? or baat sirf Zuban ki kyon kertay ho? kya kabhi movies dekhtay waqt ye socha k in aankhon sey tum loh Quraan bhi perhtay ho, kya kya nahi dekhtay in aankhon sey, in hathon sey kya kya nahi kerta, hath sey biwi ki shermgah ko touch ker k kya baad main us sey khana nahi khatay? ya us sey quraan ko nahi perhtay? islamab ki jang lernay mat niklo jab tak apnay ander ki sari un kamyon ko pora ker do jo hukm-e-ilahi hain. agar napaki sey door rakhna hai to poray jism ko rakho, main ye nahi kehta k oral sex jaiz hai or ye kerna chahye, per is ko galt sabit kernay k liye musalman ko emotionaly and regiously exploit nahi kerna chahye, main nay search k doran eik site bhi dekhi jo pakistan main sex education k liye open ki gai hai, site ka maqsad kuch bhi ho ya us sey log kis kisam ka sabak ley rahay hon main nay ye dekha k baat baat per islam ka hawala diya gaya hai, quraan or sunat ko samnay rakh ker mashwara diya gaya hai, us site main bataya gaya hai k jab ulma sey oral sex ki tehqeeq ki gai to end result ye tha k munh main agar fluid na jay to koi muzaika nahi, kahin koi terdeed mojood nahi hai, aap site per ja ker search kersaktay hain is topic ko, site ka naam jana pehchana hai, http://www.noorclinic.com ,
meray bhaiyo main is topic k na haq main bolta hon na mukhalfat main, per mujhy aap logon k eik dosray sey ikhtalafat dekh ker dukh howa to likhnay baith gay, miyan biwi k dermiyan raat bister per kya hona chahye kya nahi is ko yahan discus kerna buhat galt ho ga, aap sab apnay maslak k ulma sey raatbta karain or un sey pochay k apnay khayalaat ko choor ker aap ko islam, quraan, hadiss ko roshni main is ka jawab dein,
aap sab ka bhai
Badnaam
September 4th, 2008
Farhan is right, you can find the Fatwa online. Important question is still far away from answers. As the question was “is oral sex allowed in islam after marriage?”.
Being oral is never prohibited, everyone here is commenting about sucking/licking the organs, not about oral sex. (i am sorry if its wrong.)
The instinct of sucking/licking the organs might be a part of oral sex but according to Verbal meanings we can count a lot of things done which are a part of oral activity or pleasing the partner with your oral skills (tounge, lips etc)
on the other hands, if we talk about only licking/sucking one’s organ to please him/her it is not haram even the semen/fluid, if it goes into someone’s mouth its not haram but MAKROOH.(According to Available fatwas)
Despite all this detail there are several Medical reasons by which its clear that performing oral sex can never be very safe, oral sex can be a reason for STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases).
May Allah forbid us and keep us on right path. but i request all my fellows don’t be optimistic and accept the things which are reality. Marriage is a sacred relation and we should keep it sacred by following sunnah and Quran. So my fellows dont relate oral parts tounge etc with reciting Quran by your own brains. Allah gives us so much liberty to become PAAK. Like by doing Gusal and Wadoo we can become paak. so its better to make your body parts paak after any sexual acts rather then making your hearts Na-Paak by keeping all bad thoughts in it.
August 11th, 2008
I am sorry if it is offensive for you guys but I read a Fatwa by a renowned scholar who states that it is not a sin as long as you dont swallow the cums.
August 9th, 2008
The question posted here by a female does not indicate her sensibility. However, in Islam there is total prohibition of oral sex. The other kind of this type of sex is vocal sex in which both male and female either married or friends speak on the topic of sex and other features to fascinate each other and sound their intention to have sexplay. Oral sex means to use tongue to touch penises. First of all, a Muslim who remember Allah and recites Quran with the same tongue should be ashamed to do so as it is a great sin. For example, when one cannot use dirty plate to eat anything, how can they make their tongue dirty and then recite Quran. Moreover, it is unhygienic and may also cause a serious disease leading to mouth cancer. Allah made human “Insaan” and “Insaan” should not act like animal.
August 9th, 2008
you got a point Mr. Blind
August 6th, 2008
Blind
It’s not a question, or awnser, In medical terms, you are mentally and visionary declared BLIND. You don’t mind because you are well aware, of your condition. Sure you are more than welcome TO SPEAK OF YOURSELF.
Please keep reading, and posting your opinion;
you are funny
August 6th, 2008
Was that a question or…?
A Lot of people here speaks of them selves!
i dont mind that, really dont.
PS, I’m not a Medical Docter…
August 6th, 2008
Was that a question or…?
A Lot of people here speaks of them selves!
August 6th, 2008
you are really a blind doctor .
August 6th, 2008
Well, I don’t want to go in details, being a doctor and a believer, I can say that it’s absolutely in-appropriate, someone posted the right thing that there are many other ways to arouse your partner or to fantasize the time,
Some stupid genius said that leave Islam out of it!
My dear fellow, who ever posted that, should’ve listened to the question and that’s exactly what Mr. gull wants, some guidance from religious point of view, if I am not mistaken, the question is..
“I am quite perplexed, and that is why I am asking “Is Oral Sex for both man and women allowed after marriage in Islam, Christianity and other religions?”
I w’d say, as there isn’t any thorough guidance about this matter in Holy Book, we can derive the conclusions from Hadith and/or by visiting some good mufti. Medically, its dangerous, not recommended at all. Hygienically its pathetic, I mean, sorry if any one going to be hurt but, you really don’t want to put your tongue at someone’s peeing or pooping place, even if you do, just think, while you are praying, reciting the Holy book that the tongue you are using for this purpose, you have used it for some Other purpose as well, and I am sure you’ll be able to get rid of such nasty habits, once again, only for those who are into this thing, no offense once again.